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I've always heard things about how men can separate their feelings from sex - compartmentalize things. That is what this woman seems to be doing. To me she is being dishonest and being a "user". She is not willing to go the whole distance and commit to a relationship. She just wants to have some "no commitment sex" - or "have her cake and eat it too".
I'm pretty sure you are going to come out of this with deep wounds if you go forward, accepting the scraps the throws your way, when you will only be ok in a genuine loving and committed marriage.
I am speaking pretty bluntly here, but it seems to me she is just "using" you and I think that is wrong for a man or woman to do to someone else. If i were advising you I would say, "walk away and look for someone genuine". This woman is a cubic zirconia, not a diamond. with sympathy,
leslie and her pixies
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