I have to agree with what the other ladies said here. Get out and leave the whole situation behind you.... even as hard as it may be. She doesn't want what you want. She doesn't feel what you feel. And, she made it pretty apparent that she's not going to change her mind about that. She's using you, in my honest opinion. She knows how strongly you feel for her, and she's using that to her twisted benefit. I'm sorry you are hurting.... I know this must be hard for you. She's sending some mixed signals, and it's easy to be irrational and want to believe she will magically open up one day and be all that you want her to be. But, she's already stated the facts to you, clearly. Get out now. Find someone that will love you unconditionally... someone that wants a real, true relationship with you. You deserve nothing less.