does anyone feel they need to accomplish things in order to feel loved...I'm 19 and feeling like I have to accomplish the world...Right now I feel like I just want a simple life. I dunno I guess because I don't have kids I don't undertand the need for money...I guess I feel like I don't want to own my own company or anything like that...I think i want to be a librarian and meet the man of my dreams and maybe by the time I'm 27 have kids...I don't feel that I need to be at the top end of everything...I just want to enjoy the ride...learn new things...I guess I don't understand why people kill each other (not literally) over finding hapiness in big ways...I find the simple things in life to be enjoyable...I don't want to compete with others...who owns more cars...who's been around the world...who has a better husband...why can't we just be content with what good things we have in life??