Hi. I'm a 25 yr old female and I have been with a 20 yr old male now for about 9 mths. He has male orgasmic disorder. Im trying to be supportive and patient but I feel like we arent doing anything to help fix it either. He is a very passive/shy person who has only had one other serious relationship before me, and only had sex with her twice. And only once did he ever orgasm inside that girl. I give him handjobs so he can orgasm but i want us to be able to orgasm during sex. I worry that because he cant orgasm during sex, he will never enjoy it as much as a man should. I love sex and want it often but we rarely do. Anyone have any experiance with this? If so please tell me what my partner and i can do to try and get him to orgasm inside me.

*This type of issue is usually pyschological but nothing bad has ever happened to him in his life. He does get turned on by feet but he isnt sure if its a fetish. But if he orgasmed in his ex gf without using feet then im sure he can again, which means his love for feet may not be an actual fetish.

*He doesnt really want to see a therapist.so im hoping for any personal tricks or bedroom methods?thanks guys!