((Justgiving))

I struggle with forgiveness too.

The way I try to think of it -- As long as I hold anger for another, I am still carrying *their* burden. They hurt me, but I am continuing to lug that hurt around.

Forgiveness is freedom from that burden. It says 'whatever you did to me, I am not responsible, and I choose to no long hold this anger in my heart.' I will never forget, but I will be free.

Just writing this out...I think has helped me! Thank you, and I hope this helps you as well.