I'm closing this thread because it seems like two people keep mis-hearing each other... There's support trying to be offered, but it's turned down with a profane, sarcastic remark.

I understand sometimes anger gets the better of us, and we feel like we need to lash out (especially at those who are trying to help or support us). But when you do that here, it makes people feel hurt and close up.

This is, first and foremost, a support community. So if you don't appreciate the support you ask for, then I suggest finding another way to ask for it (or at least don't denigrate those offering you support).

DocJohn