Thank you so much for responding. I liked what you said about a sexual therapist suggesting exercises or routines to help acclimate him to intercourse. I think thats our best shot. I just dont kno if he will ever see a therapist. As for the foot thing...we have said the same thing, that id have to become pretty flexible lol...but he neither of us want to rely on feet either. Since he can orgasm through handjob, and it does seem like his penis is very sensitive...i think your right i just have to be patient and keep trying.I'm sure it will happen eventually heres to hoping ha. its just that i love sex and feel bad cuz he isnt getting the same enjoyment out of it as me.so now im starting to not orgasm either, because im constantly worrying and feeling bad for him