My ex spared no expense or energy in making me feel worthless, stupid and ugly. I was not allowed an opinion or pride in anything I did. So when my daughter invalidated my experience and parenting, it very well could of been "him" I heard. So yes, she may have pushed that button. And in many ways I do have a hard time processing other people's anger, I sometimes (but not always) will take it personally. I've made a lot of progress regarding that though, I stop and tell myself that it's not always about "me". I have to catch myself falling into old patterns and make a concious decision to think logically instead of reacting emotionally.