some of my family and concerned loved ones live a distance away from me and i struggle with wanting to be there for them from a distance.. its so very hard to hear their pain and struggles and be too distant to give the hug and physical attention they need and want and be someplace else especially when i know that the physical contact is what they need and its the one thing i cant give from where im at.. i work so hard to explain my cares and concerns and to be there for them as much as i am able and still it is too little..