your kindness is always welcome Lenny... i get older and now i have time to think back, line up and see with more carity those first events that began this career of healing for me... looking back is sometimes overpowering and overwhelming and sometimes i needed to step away and let my tears fall where others couldnt see... it seemed they rained inside forever.....

im so sorry you experienced those terrible things oasis.. i will never understand what it is that makes one person cause harm to another... even though i have retaliated many times, to begin a hatred is beyond my comprehension.. it slams the gears and wheels of an otherwise caring community of growth and potential... a family is no different.. growth ceases in an atmosphere of incivility... always sending kind caring vibes for you