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Old Dec 03, 2008, 04:51 AM
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Hey there honey,

I feel like this all the time! I'm constantly feeling inadequate and there are some girls and guys in my group who tend to pick at me quite a bit sometimes, but back to the question that Kimmydawn asked.

You answered "Then she is judging me on very little information and isnt taking the time to get to know me."

So, if she knows very little about you and has almost nothing to go on, then is she really worth worrying about, do you really want to be friendly with someone who judges you on the slightest, tiniest little thing?

I always get asked this by my mental health worker at college and I always end up kicking myself because I think "yeah, what is the point in worrying?"

So, maybe try nto to worry about it so much, just think about how low she is going as to judge you on almost nothing.

I hope this helps

TPND
Thanks for this!
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