well no. intamacy , are different things to different people . I guess. My sex drive , Well the doc marked me as hypo sexually(sounds funny) is really high. Its not a normal sex drive, I can get alittle wrapped uped in it. were as thats all I think about. ya this sounds like a mans dream. but its really not. and can lead to infedlity, Ive been called some really nasty names. And its like drugs, when you experiment the one thing isnt enough, you want more for arosoal, weather it be sneaking a porn movie, the fantacies come first. then your in trouble . its a pretty big problom, most psychologist dont cover it yet. and women are at the top just like men. when aa first came out it was mostly men, women dint attend, then well sexuallt revelution