No one has to do anything they don't want to with this. Heidu's point is valid, but I would add a caution as well. Are they caution flags, or avoidance mechanisms?

I think what you mentioned about not acting in true character is definately a challenge. Face to face or across the internet.

I feel grateful that Sept. and I have dealt with our dif's, and I believe I've gained quite a bit from it. I hope she would say the same. But I wouldn't want to push too far. The idea that it is role playing should give us a comfort level because the things said are in character, not reality.

Absolutely none of us are psychologists and I see the danger as well. Not so much for myself, I know where my boundaries are, but I definately do not want to cause damage to anyone here, so maybe it's best not to try it.

These recent posts have caused me to feel badly. It's not my interest to "put" anyone through anything. What I've recieved so far from this thread is more than I expected. We can end it anytime.

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but rising every time we fall." Confucius