i'm new to this forum and have just been mainly browsing since i have yet to get to know anyone here... but i stumbled upon this thread and just felt i had to say how happy it makes me to see someone find love. i wish you the best of luck with this guy; you mention the whole wheelchair thing would take some getting used to...well, i can relate a little; i have a sort of disability that makes my left side much weaker than my right, so it's almost like i only have one hand... but i've been lucky enough to find a great guy who knows about it and is more than accepting! i think that's how you know they might be 'the one'; when they love you for everything you are. it's the best feeling in the world, and i'm glad you were able to experiance it!