I can totally relate to that, really.....freakishly familiar. Anyway, I think what's more important is to work on your own issue and try to spare him the wrath, it's really not his fault. If he's tired or not in the mood, it's probably because he really is tired or not in the mood. You know you have the moments, I do. But, basically, what both you and I can seriously do is work on how we think of ourselves. Apart of having a bad self esteem is not believing complimants. I never truly believe anybody that tells me I am pretty or thin enough, or whatever. It's hard to believe something you truly believe is different. Try to be easier on yourself, avoid comparing yourself to other people and look at yourself individually. When I watch movies and look at the pictures of the models in magazines, yes I can despise myself, but really I am a REAL woman and I am not that bad. Try thinking like this.

I hope things get better for ya'll.