(((((((((((( Kendyll & Jon )))))))))))))
I haven't had a chance to respond to this thread until now, but boy do I understand what you are going through. It really sounds like you are both doing some good work to get some boundaries and understanding on both sides and that's really great!
Regardless of who within the system is angry/upset, they have to learn how to let out that anger in more positive, healthy ways. It's hard though when they were never taught that or given the opportunity to do it safely...it's quite a learning experience for everyone.
I think you are both doing a great job.....hang in there with it!

sabby