I hate being the pessismitic one here because well, at PC I think most of us are trying to look at the good aspect of things, but I wanted to say this based on what you had said above. You know you may never beable to trust her again and trust is huge in a relationship, enough to make it or break it. You said above that she had claimed that they were together but did not have sex...whatever, there already you do not believe what she says (probably rationally). Just imagine, every time she walks out the door alone, what you'll think and how you'll react when she's late when returning.......prepare for these thoughts if you do plan on getting back together.