you are right i read about how trauma is because of not getting the injury repaired because no one was there to help and to care or admit and see it- when you are a child- so i think it means its one thing to hurt and get hurt and even cause it but its not as damaging as if you do not have any way to attend to the injury with anyones help. Does that sound right like I got it? I am glad you wrote about taking resposablity in the PTS forum but i admit i did not read it really well yet. i will at another time.