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Old Dec 05, 2008, 12:59 AM
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T just seemed to be speaking out loud as she assessed where I was.
That must have been hard to listen to her talk about you and decide where you were like that.

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At one point she look right at me and asked if I thought my memory of certain events would ever come back. In the tone of this question, I heard frustration.
Why is she so interested/invested in whether these memories come back to you? It sounds like a lot of pressure. The memories will come back when they are ready (if ever), on your timetable.

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Unfortunately, she didn’t really seem to have a plan for how to move forward.
Could you guys work on something else for a while and give this direction a rest? Maybe you need a breather from working on this difficult topic. Could you work on something else for a while and then circle back later, renewed?

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Want to stop working so hard and still failing. I want to just earn the right to play the game of life, without always worrying about what others might do to me.
It is great you know where you want to go.
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