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<font color="green"> Just an up date on the situation, the girl fiend (who is in early 20’s) got tired of caring for dgd already. She handed dgd off to ds (29) who has a broken arm and is on heavy-duty drugs for the pain. Therefore, we picked her up on Thursday, and just gave her back today.
I am feeling a bit stronger but so lost as what I should try next. This in not a good life for dgd. She tells us, “We go home,” When she recognizes the road to my house. She cries when we take her back. “They are not there, I don’t want to see daddy or mommy.” She still seems to love them but she wants to stay with us.
When I knew she was staying with her mother, I could work on having cps involved but my son has been a good dad to this child. I have to qualify that statement. He is not a good dad when the girl fiend is around and he has no job or means of support. Still I don’t know that I can push for him to lose all his rights to dgd, I talked to him today about some kind of guardianship to provide dgd with stability told him to think about it.
Then I went over to see the other grandmother, the gf’s mom. I had pictures of dgd that I had taken and made copies for ds, gf and her family so I went to her mom to drop them off. Her mom said she is being punished by gf and is not allowed to see the baby. She told me that she was never an alcoholic that gf has lied about that. She told me that gf’s birthfather was bipolar. I told her that I felt it was very possible that most of gf’s problems could be bipolar. She said I should try to get guardianship of the dgd that her dd is not a good mom. My heart aches for this whole family.
My home life is better right now, the girls are healing and so am I. thank you for your love and concern.
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dalila
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-Erma Bombeck
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