You would find it helpful reading a post from FORUMS. A blog by Dr. Samuel Lopez explain prople with behavior that is not healthy but they cover up and blame everyone else but themselves for their behavior.

It's called. How to spot a narcissistic. You may be in for a ride that you didn't expect but hang in there and look for answers.

Personally I would be extremely cautious. Forgiving and forgetting this type of behavior has a high price tag.

Hang in there hon, be strong, admit the truth, early and not too late.