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Originally Posted by phoenix7
it doesnt explain to me why one child who is abused goes on to abuse others while another child in the same family doesnt
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It has been explained to me that those who were abused and go on to abuse do it because they don't want to be the victim anymore. They see it only as either you are a perpetrator or you are a victim. I personally feel that the naturally sensitive people are the ones who would never go on to abuse others and the folks who aren't as sensitive are the ones who could go on to deal with their pain by becoming an abuser.......
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