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Originally Posted by bebop
I hate working closely with other women myself. I was a trainer for a trucking company and I refused to put women on my truck. it ended up being a competition and I refuse to compete. that being said if I were in school and had to do a project with them I would go ahead and do it. I would do my best to put my feelings aside and try to move on. I too want everyone to like me and have never felt real comfortable around other women too much.
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I was just going to post on this subject. I do not understand the other women I work with. At the work place, I try to be empathetic, respectful and do my work thoroughly. However, there are always issues; small cliques, competing and one upmanship. I feel like I am in kindergarten. I join in the after work get togethers and am interested in the other women's experiences and share my own. I am losing patience and withdrawing. It's like a damned if you do and damned if you don't. I feel like resigning but I know I will come up against this in any other job. If I try to hang with the guys, gossip starts...help
What to do?