(((((((((( Chereen ))))))))))))
It surely looks like he cares very much for you as a dear friend, since he is now including you in his life again. That must make you feel really good to know that there is still a connection between you.
I can certainly understand if you wish to curtail your outings with him and his bf now as you seem not to be over this attraction to him yet. Maybe you could have a phone relationship with him...talk as friends...keep in touch, but back away from getting together and going out. You have every right to allow yourself to work through your feelings for him from a safe distance.
I think, keeping yourself busy with other things, other people is exactly what you should be doing to move on in your life. Good for you! Know that in time, you heart and your brain will figure all this out and you will feel better.
Take good care!

sabby