Yeah Pegasus, forgiving doesn't mean that you let them back in your life to hurt you again.......... Maybe there are 2 different levels of forgiveness. The highest, when the perpetrator wants to make amends and truly change the behavior then the other level would fall under this where the healing is only with the victim.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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