On that note, she has learned that something that led to problems in our relationship was that she wasn't open about alot of things....I was always there trying to listen....and her constantly saying she didnt want to go to college and would rather be a housewife, AFTER she promised me she should go to college.

I told her this, and I admitted that it is pretty cocky to say, but I dont think she will ever find anybody that would have done what i did for her....im not saying im perfect though, nobody is, but i did everything i could for her and the marriage. But as everybody knows, to make it work, it takes two. Especially for a marriage to survive infedelity.