My T doesn't e-mail, nor does he do phone calls. The one time I had to call him, for an emergency session, we were both strictly business--we set up the appointment and that was it.

This, strangely, is a good setup for me. I say 'strangely' because normally I prefer to communicate intimate details via writing, not verbally. But I like that my relationship with T is all face-to-face, because he can read me so well. I think we'd both get a lot less out of our communication if it wasn't face to face.