For those who are keeping up with this ordeal. I went to the funeral and was very unhappy. Some chick was there with a beer in her hand at a funeral. How trashy so I do what I can to encourage and be supportive for my sister. After the funeral some of my family were going to eat. So we asked my sister if she wanted to come. She blew us off and told me she was going to go to a bar with friends. I have done what I could to be nice and helpful. But I'm tired of the cold shoulder. I had my daughters birthday and told my sister to come and celebrate life. She promised to be there. Yeah go figure she never showed up and couldn't even call. I feel sorry for her but I'm not hurting my self to help her. I'm over it. So no more post about her. She's on my nerves for real. Sorry to sound so harsh but dang if you cant help yourself no one will be able to help you either. Right? thanks all for the advice.