I am sorry it has taken me so long to reply, but I had to read this over and over so I could answer these questions with out remorse or falsely answer them to you .

1. my current boyfriend is a wonderful man to me and to my child, he loves us both very much.
2. yes he is a wonderful father to her, and I also think he will be a great step-father when/if we get married in the futher..
3. because he wants to be a better father to his daugther than his father was to him. and I do belive he does want to, for he is trying very hard he pays his child support and gets to see her weekly and also does some of the little things I ask for when I do not have the moeny to get it, and he goes overbarod buying things like diapers..

See he never truly disapperd, he just left emotianlly never phsycailly left, but at times I wish he had, then this would nto be so darn hard...

To regards to moving on, I have moved on, but my heart is feeling things for him, that I could not feel in the past (long story) I am free in some aspects to let his love flow, and my love for him to flow wich is soemthing I have wanted for years, and now, it is appearatn the does love me and his daughter, but I have moved on with a differnt man, that i care about, and do not want to hurt him. OR the other..
I am in such a spot, that I am not sure what to really do...

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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