Thanks for all the support everyone. My husband has been tested by a psycologist and got his results last week. He does have ADD and problems with mood. He has an average IQ but is slow to process information. He goes back to the prescribing doctor this week to start on meds. Cross your fingers that it works. We have had some serious problems since my first post, but we are trying to work through it. We have not ruled out marriage counseling just yet. We will see what the meds do for him.

Again thanks for the input folks.