Hello Steve and Welcome. I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to post this message because frankly it's dispicable what's happening to you. Let me just say upfront that this is a subject that makes my blood boil. Not so much from personal experience, but because it is just so viscious and caddy and petty. To belittle is to be little!

I agree with sqrl. Ppl do these things out of their own insecurities, fears, and to take the focus off their own issues, problems and screwed up lives. Lets face it, just because you don't have a MI, doesn't make you healthy right?
The most important thing you need to do right now is remain true to yourself and your sense of self. I agree that you should in NO way buy into the rumor mill, participate in the rumor mill or even listen to others churning the rumor mill. Continue to do what sounds to me like a good job. Live up to your responsibilties and be polite to everyone. I don't feel that you should run away from this woman, others could think you have something to hide. Instead just go about your business as usual. Nod hello and continue where you're going. Don't feed what's happening by reacting to it. I know it hurts, but just tough it out a bit until they get bored trying to bate you or whatever it is they're looking for out of it. Rise above it.

Ppl say the most sickening things. The fact that their mind even goes there says something about them. Would you really want to associate with someone like that anyway?

I know that what I've said here is easier said than done. But we are all here to support you and encourage you. You are NOT alone.
TgrsPurr.