7 minutes...take a step back and think what you can do that takes 7 minutes. Maybe he's showering and brushing his teeth, maybe he's using the facilities and getting dressed, or eating, or talking on the phone, or thinking what to say that will make you smile that pretty smile again. For some of us, it is natural to think the worst...to think just like you are right now. Instead of that, try to think maybe it's not you...maybe it has nothing at all to do with you. Maybe he got a phone call. Maybe he's scared just like you were. Maybe it's a hundred other things besides you...so think that, it's much easier and kinder to you. Don't assume the worst.