My fiance proposed to be 9 months ago in February. We have been together for almost 10 years. We have told everyone we were waiting to set a date until he passed a state exam for the trade he works in.

He finally passed after failing twice but didn't tell me. I found out while on facebook. He said he didn't tell me because he doesn't want me to talk about setting a date. He said he doesn't want to hear any talk of weddings.

Two weeks ago he put a large payment on a wedding band for me on layaway.

Does any of this make sense?