My husband spent the last two and one half years going through male mid-life crisis. It was tough on us both. Although he never had sex with another woman, he let himself wander in his mind, and I'm sure, was flirting at work. He works in a factory, and the two troublesome girls work in the office. In their forties, I'm sure they saw a meal ticket, as they are both divorced. My hubby has always been a keep his hands to himself type guy, and when I saw him holding hands with the one girl at a party, and then dancing with her, then walking away holding hands, I saw a big red light. I questioned him, and he was livid with anger toward me. He told me she was his best friend, and that stabbed me right in the heart. So, this year, at his company Christmas party, the second skank, who is an alcoholic, has lost her children because of it, and always has her hands all over all of the men, has had sexual relations at work with at least one guy, and has turned in more than one man there for sexual harrassment, comes over to our table. She trys to hug me, and I push her away. Then, she goes to my husband and is hugging him, then kisses him. I'm not very good at handling these things because I just don't know what to say. She has a bottle of beer in her hand all the time and is just plain obnoxious. I do believe it embarrassed him, but he needs to handle this, I feel, and tell her to keep her hands to herself. I'm just venting, but I think this is just wrong, and the company should tell her to behave herself, or just dismiss her. It makes me sick inside, and I don't want to go to any more parties. I've had enough!! This is three functions in a row that I have had to deal with these two women.