So sorry for your loss. I hope in time your sister will come around, it hurts to reach out to someone and they don't acknowledge it.

You've probably heard this before- but -- each person grieves in their own way and in their own time frame. Maybe she just isn't ready to be around family yet.

When my dad died I was running around doing chores throughout the house, one of my sisters, on the other hand, was just sitting there in a trance-like. She asked me, how I could just go about my life like I'm doing--- I told her that's how I cope-- I can't sit still when I'm upset. She on the other hand, can't get moving.

Your sister may just have her own way of dealing with the loss and perhaps letting her mourn in her own way is the best love you can give to her right now?... just a thought.

wishing you peace,

Mandy