Even though I've been in therapy for several years (with the same T mind you) I still worry about the things I say to my T. Simple things like when I don't feel she's being responsive enough to my needs (in my head this feels childish) to larger things like the graphic conversations about the sexual and physical abuse I've been subjected to as an adult. Even though my T is pretty good at controlling her emotions I know in my heart they have to have an affect on her. I think because of my nurturing nature I will always care what others think, hopefully not to the degree I do now.
Angel