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welcome to pc! i find it very difficult with loneliness. we still don't always find ways to cooperate. but, another thing is that as a child the goal of dissociating was to keep bad memories from coming up and showing themselves. if i got upset and started talking about what was happening to me my abusers promised me a slow and hideous death and i believed them 100%. so all my alters had the same goal but did it different ways. they were not necessarily made to "work together" - at least not in my systems of alts. they were made to be chaotic and hidden. it is very hard for them to change all their ideas and suddenly become cooperative and all "sweetness and light". many of my alts were anything BUT sweet. so we have major challenges to get past before we can work together to truly "get past the past". but it is do-able, with time, effort and help. you are here and that is a good thing that will help you some as you use the support here and offer your own. it will build you up inside. hugs!
leslie and her pixies
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