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I agree that it is okay to be tired, this has been a real struggle for you so that is completely understandable. When people see the ones they care for in pain they want to fix it but they don't know how, that is probably what you friends and coworkers are doing. It is okay to tell them thank you for caring so much but that you don't want to really talk about it at this time.