Thanks sadly me for your posts. They were very helpful. I'll check those sites when I have a little more time, now I have to go to bed cuz I have a 8 am class tomorrow and need my beauty sleep. I did manage to get an e-mail from a lady about a BDSM in group in Des Moines (where I'm from). I still need to contact her about play parties and such... ahhhh too many things to do and finals are next week... *overwhelmed.*

Anyway, thanks again!