(((((((((((W2H, Leslie, Twilight))))))))))) thanks
One thing I noticed tonight in one-on-one T, last night's switch was really the first where 8 and I were both "at ease" with her take over. Hard to be at ease in crisis, but for what it was worth, it was emotionally easier than other take overs because I didn't fight her for control and she didn't panic about being out (if that makes any sense - it did to us). So really there was far less emotional hurt than ever before within the fact that there was a takeover. 8 knew she couldn't communicate with group T and really didn't get upset about it (as much as she would have a year ago). So i do see growth here. It just has had the system in chaos - you all know what I am talking about.
ty!