((pixie)) one way i have discovered to reach through our pain and the walls that separate us from those we love is the factor of personal safety...

when i choose to be safest to myself, i quickly realize that safety is a shared concern between myself and all... by emphasizing safety for myself i can attune others into the ideas regarding safety... safety includes a safe place to be ourself where we can feel accepted by what surrounds us... you may be able to find a quiet, safe pace in your mind and emotions, a place where you think your thoughts and then, coming into a clearer understanding for yourself, express safety (personal and other) issues with those who share your life... safety is a connecting factor we each can turn to, and safety concerns for self and others create bonds that are healthiest for us...

so, if you want it, my advice is to think of your own safety first, become safe in your own place and then draw others into your safety area carefully, with the love and consideration you often express and share with us... sending kind healing hopes for you always..