Sounds like a stressful time for you, during stress it can be easy for miscommunication to happen. I don't think you are being unreasonable but you aren't getting your own needs met. Your boyfriend might just be really preoccupied and not at all intentionally being oblivious.

So you might end up needing to comfort yourself in other ways, have healthy distractions and hobbies going, especially during this time of change and uncertainty.

Maybe ask your boyfriend if the two of you can have some uninterrupted time together, even on the phone, time for just the two of you.