Whether you are on meds or not, evey feeling or behavior can't be completely controlled or completely alleviated by a pill.
This age of better life through chemistry is STUPID!!
If meds help you, far be it for me to judge. It's not like I haven't taken them for 25 years.
But I understand your frustration. Why can't people just express concern for your emotinal state without bringing medication into it, like it's the ONLY issue.
Having said that--Sounds like she might care about you. Someone caring about you can't be all bad, right?