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multipixie9 · Dec 11, 2008, 06:46 PM

thank you, Sannah and Fuzzybear, i appreciate your kindness. i had written a nice email to him seeking to open up an talk with him. the results were cold and hostile. he brought up past issues he hasn't been able to forgive or get past - in spite of the 12 step principles insistence on forgiving and on making our amends. he seeks to punish me for my failures in our marriage. right now, nothing i do can please him or be acceptable to him. so i am going to let him have his feelings and i choose to forgive him for being stuck in the past. i've certainly been stuck in my past often enough that i can't judge him for a walk down the bad side of our past. thanks for your friendship.

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