Last night's session ended up being about boundaries. T determined that I had had quite enough going on so we didn't need to press things. So instead I told her about the more mundane life at the Kiya house and she called me on my boundaries - which also had the effect of making me shut up for the rest of the hour. T reminded me again that I come from a household of no boundaries. T started listing all the ways ppl create boundaries and i could hear myself thinking "Yeah, but those aren't REAL boundaries!!! So when I told t that -that opened a whole new can of worms.
Now i am more confused than ever.