wow sounds like you are doing really good handling the situation!!! probably doesn't feel that way being in the middle of it all, but looks like you have a great handle on things. i know looks can be deceiving...but ya looking good!

i googled special ed teachers and mentors... came across a ppt presentation with a list of online mentoring programs - may be worth looking into... sometimes counseling i think helps with the overall how to handle stress, but a mentor...someone who's been in the trenches - may be able to give practical advice...

www.inspiringteachers.com
www.teachers.net
www.teachersfirst.com/sped/prof/index.html
www.tr.wou.edu/rrp/index.htm

maybe one or two of these can offer help. at least maybe it'll be something you can give your daughter to show her you understand she's going through a tough time professionally, that you understand - in general - she's chosen a very challenging career path (and i'm sure you are proud of her!) and it will empower her to do a little digging on her own for some assistance...??? maybe??? good luck