HI Kiya,

That sounds very confusing, I find boundaries impossible they always seem to be moving and not telling me! - I used to keep people so far away that I never had trouble with their boundaries because they never got past mine! - One T took down my boundaries and now I have no idea what Im doing - so I second third and fourth guess myself or do nothing rather than say or do something that would step over someones boundaries. Myabe discussing your confusion with your T would help clear things up?

P7