no, you are not being unreasonable and i agree that you are not getting your needs met through him right now and the sad truth is that you may not. (i mean, you may but its - who knows whats going on in his mind i'd be a little preoccupied if i was about to go to war.)
its too soon to tell what will become of the two of you - its gonna be hard with him gone . . .communication.
and i am so sorry to hear that you are going through your own troubles at the same time. timing sucks, huh?

sorry to hear that he is unable to be there for you at this time. how serious is the relationship? were you also trying to spend time together so you could be there for him before he left but he just doesnt seem to get that?

i hope that coming on here helps you find some support and figure things out - i know that's what i'm here for.

sincerely,
clara