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Originally Posted by imapatient
I think one of the worst ramifications of abuse is that it gets in the way of developing relationships with other people that would help you experience more trust, intimacy, and just being with others that might be the thing you need most.
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Isn't this the truth! Working past these barriers and getting yourself with healthy people is the route to take! Healthy people see you and this is what makes it uncomfortable. Many people stay with the unhealthy people because they do not "see" others and you can hide with all your insecurities right in front of them. Facing these insecurities and working through them is liberating and very healthy.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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