Kim
I felt the same way with my T. When I first started seeing her, I felt like she was walking on egg shells. I wonder if some of them are just as nervous as us in the first few meetings.
Anyways, my previous T had been doing it for 15 years, which was strange to see her that way. We were sort of all over the place in the beginning trying things and moving on to others. I thought well maybe she had not deal much with people who were sxually abused.

You said something about working on a PhD, is it in psychology? If so, there could be some insecurity on her part to that as well. You know wanting to do or say the right thing. Just a thought. I would say give it a little more time to allow both of you to get more comfortable with each other and if you still feel that way, then go with your gut.

I am seeing a new one now, and she didn't seem the slightest bit nervous, yet, she has only been in practice for 3 years. Go figure lol

Hangingon